Cock talk

Enough of those recovery speeches, what really counts is what you get after you've dutifully managed that out-of-this-world post-op care, to be taken seriously (very seriously indeed) but that you only want to go through w/th a touch of sense of humor, as tough as it can get sometimes.

Question is can I actually use this cock at all, what about rigidity, intercourse and how do I relate to it post second stage -

 Reassuring news is that yes some action is definitely and positively manageable -
As a reminder, I started the phallo process whilst in a gay relationship;
and I am way more of a topper than the opposite, so lets see what surgery has done for me so far.
The only way I could manage penetrative sex between stage 1 and stage 2 was to go w/th a chick - penis is not firm enough for anal intercourse.
It does not mean you can't have gay plays , after all penetration is far from being the only thing you can do to someone; rubbing, wanking, oral.. are available options.
As hard as u can try and set focus on other things than penetration, straightforward gay sex is still an issue when you don't enjoy bottoming that much.
Thats for the first drawback, let's move on to what actually Works and definitely makes the whole process worth it -


Post First stage
Let's push it a little and confirm that yes u can definitely go for penetrative sex after stage 1 only -

Wanking is possible after a reasonable healing time of 6 to 8 weeks after surgery
Wait until you've totally recovered and you may want to give penetration a try.
Your cock may not get a full erection but it is large enough to use it and 2 condoms make for the firmness; some added mental effort and serious play with your partner and you might even be surprised to find out that you can get close to stiffness. Happened to me a few times and that felt great. After all there is blood streaming in that shaft of yours.

TIPS : Infections are more likely to appear in that first year after stage one, always have some antibiotics on the side (Amoxycilline) and go for a course within first sign of something wrong going down there.

Post Second stage
Glansplasty is a must, makes a real difference to how your penis looks like but also Feels like and helps a good deal to diminish that "limp" sensation you may have to struggle w/th after stage 1 only.
Your cock gets a proper shape and oral sex is way more comfortable - both for you and your partner.
Wanking also feels different now that clithead's been attached and sown to the base, I did Not enjoy that "rubbing against it" feeling so that has vanished too, along w/th last remnants of slight dysphoria.
Penetrative sex is enhanced and accepting the fact that there's no point getting frustrated from what you Can't get - such as tough hard-on or the ability to ejaculate - helps a great deal in enjoying what you can actually do, and a lot of options open up.
I can now go for rough and raw, w/th a chick easily enough -
as for another bloke, that would have to be his own ability to open up. Anal sex even amongst gay bio guys is always a deal about who fucks and who wants to be fucked, and to be fucked, you need to open up, and what you decide to shove inside does not have to be stiff as a piece of wood -  Phalloplasty surgery conceived for trans makes large enough penises to arouse strong desire and allow different types of sexual encounters, wether gay, straight or bisexual.


TIPS: A cock ring to hold the base - + it looks good -
 "They Fit" type of condom, when you're on the larger side and to cover buccal mucosa graft 

http://www.theyfit.co.uk/

STAGE 2 MLD

Now is time for a report on second stage , that I was finally able to achieve, after months of painfully putting some cash aside; this surgery is paid out-of-pocket and it sure wasn't an easy target..

Anyhow am pretty positive w/th the results, here is a full description of a 3 hours procedure: 

Neophallic base reshaping / Nerve hook-up /Replacement of Bilateral testicular prostheses - from 21ml to 27ml / Urethral reconstruction with buccal mucosa graft / Glansoplasty ( Norfolk technique ) / Clitoral covering -

Yes, that's a lot of things done in such a short time , big up for Dr Miro's confirmed skills -

 And here are images  

                                          SUPRA-PUBIC CATHETER ( 3 weeks )

Glansoplasty (Norfolk technique)

Shape looks good and definitely makes  a difference from result after stage 1 -

I did discuss it previous to  the surgery w/th Miro so we could agree on what i was looking forward to, aesthetically speaking -

Feel is great, touch too -  should be more comfortable to stand naked and share it w/th any  future partner - happy w/th the outcome -

Urethral mucosa graft ( part 1 of final stage)

Looks rough but isn't painful

  Surgical explanation: this is the first step of Urethral Lenghtening finalisation; some skin was taken from inside of my left cheek (= Buccal Mucosa Graft) and attached to the phallus - that has to be constantly treated with moisturizer and cream Until it gets suple and elastic enough to be sewn back together to create a final urethral natural tube (called urethral tubularisation) - Most important is that it doesn't dry up -

4 months post stage 2

A little update would not do any wrong

Fully recovered from stage 2 now, am back on track and have been totally mobile since end of May (surgery was in March)
All in all it was about 2 months before my genitals were clear of any suture or soreness.
First cycle ride felt really welcomed, being able to stand up a whole day, garden and get back on a ladder too -
Because I could not use lower part of the body so much for a while ( and yuh.. was that hard to accept...) I had the chance to do shoulders (but also arms/abdominals) work-out by weightlifting - that was perfect up until I could use my whole body again.

Lads, I really want to insist yet again that post-op phallo is definitely not something to take lightly -
It is nervously straining to be totally aware of your surroundings, to feel awake and sharp and then find out each day that your body can't keep up. You can always perform necessary stuff, like going shopping, manage a walk, or else but it requires patience and some rest before you can pretend a whole day out and about, and it can get quite frustrating at times -
In the end , looking back at it, am grateful enough not to have had any major complications, I still had to deal w/th an open wound between my balls and my butt, due to the flight back when a few stitches just ruptured - It took me a week to decide that as long as i kept it clean and that it had no sign of infection, I would not show up in a hospital service - it healed by itself in the end.

Chronological sum-up :
Surgery on the 10th of March
Upper body work-outs : end April
Outdoor physical activities (without straining): end May
Back to travelling: mid-June


 TIPS: Forcing yourself to rush back into work or physical activities is not the way to go if u want to avoid complications -
Always plan 2-3 weeks longer than what you're being told for post-op healing -



                                       CONDOM ON

                                                                                                            

8 WEEKS POST-OP STAGE 2

Having had the surgery on the 10th of March 2014, I had to figure out for myself how long exactly before I could get back on track and here are time delays precisions -

For that second stage, which is far less heavy on the body than first stage, only 3 hours on the table was necessary (when it goes up to 8 hours for stage 1) and i'd only spent one night in the clinic before being driven back to a hotel room the day following surgery -
Sticked around in Belgrade for 10 more days and took a flight, wearing the supra-pubic catheter once again, but this time had a neat device not to get drips of piss soaking my jeans..whilst walking around loaded w/th luggage....which had been an issue in the past -

SAFE N SMOOTH                                              

                                                                                                         

Back in a small studio sublet for post-op care, a lot of stitches to strenghten buccal mucosa graft in place + around rectum area where some skin tissue had to be removed (to avoid unecessary swelling)
now was only a matter of time before they fall off -

It took precisely 45 days before I could confirm physical mobility without any suture getting in the way - Before that and from day one , I had been mobile, having to shop or travel or getting meds but the whole area was obviously sore and risk of inflammation always present.
Especially since i had decided to swap medium-size testicles to larger ones, that was an added bonus that did go along the graft but which required some more time before resuming daily activities or long walks.
Once the soreness had gone, the few leftover stitches were enough to be an issue when trying to get active, even putting jeans on was a pain in the butt.. That's when you're a happy lad just hanging around in a pair of shorts, genitals dropping, avoiding tight knickers or itching of any kind.


       POST-OP KIT

            









          

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