Cock talk

Enough of those recovery speeches, what really counts is what you get after you've dutifully managed that out-of-this-world post-op care, to be taken seriously (very seriously indeed) but that you only want to go through w/th a touch of sense of humor, as tough as it can get sometimes.

Question is can I actually use this cock at all, what about rigidity, intercourse and how do I relate to it post second stage -

 Reassuring news is that yes some action is definitely and positively manageable -
As a reminder, I started the phallo process whilst in a gay relationship;
and I am way more of a topper than the opposite, so lets see what surgery has done for me so far.
The only way I could manage penetrative sex between stage 1 and stage 2 was to go w/th a chick - penis is not firm enough for anal intercourse.
It does not mean you can't have gay plays , after all penetration is far from being the only thing you can do to someone; rubbing, wanking, oral.. are available options.
As hard as u can try and set focus on other things than penetration, straightforward gay sex is still an issue when you don't enjoy bottoming that much.
Thats for the first drawback, let's move on to what actually Works and definitely makes the whole process worth it -


Post First stage
Let's push it a little and confirm that yes u can definitely go for penetrative sex after stage 1 only -

Wanking is possible after a reasonable healing time of 6 to 8 weeks after surgery
Wait until you've totally recovered and you may want to give penetration a try.
Your cock may not get a full erection but it is large enough to use it and 2 condoms make for the firmness; some added mental effort and serious play with your partner and you might even be surprised to find out that you can get close to stiffness. Happened to me a few times and that felt great. After all there is blood streaming in that shaft of yours.

TIPS : Infections are more likely to appear in that first year after stage one, always have some antibiotics on the side (Amoxycilline) and go for a course within first sign of something wrong going down there.

Post Second stage
Glansplasty is a must, makes a real difference to how your penis looks like but also Feels like and helps a good deal to diminish that "limp" sensation you may have to struggle w/th after stage 1 only.
Your cock gets a proper shape and oral sex is way more comfortable - both for you and your partner.
Wanking also feels different now that clithead's been attached and sown to the base, I did Not enjoy that "rubbing against it" feeling so that has vanished too, along w/th last remnants of slight dysphoria.
Penetrative sex is enhanced and accepting the fact that there's no point getting frustrated from what you Can't get - such as tough hard-on or the ability to ejaculate - helps a great deal in enjoying what you can actually do, and a lot of options open up.
I can now go for rough and raw, w/th a chick easily enough -
as for another bloke, that would have to be his own ability to open up. Anal sex even amongst gay bio guys is always a deal about who fucks and who wants to be fucked, and to be fucked, you need to open up, and what you decide to shove inside does not have to be stiff as a piece of wood -  Phalloplasty surgery conceived for trans makes large enough penises to arouse strong desire and allow different types of sexual encounters, wether gay, straight or bisexual.


TIPS: A cock ring to hold the base - + it looks good -
 "They Fit" type of condom, when you're on the larger side and to cover buccal mucosa graft 

http://www.theyfit.co.uk/